Summing up all my manliness for this one

This took a large pair of cajones to write guys because I don't really think that I wanted to admit it to myself. But I think that I may kind of be scared to get back into the real world (sometimes I feel like I am in the real world but I'm hesitant to go back to the fake one). After searching through all of these places that I could make a new home, the same fear still plagues me.


What makes me afraid, you may be asking yourself, to go back to the real world? I'm still working through this, but I think that at least part of the answer is that I'm afraid to get comfortable somewhere that I may have to rip myself out of again if (and maybe when) this tumor begins it's next ascent on my life. Can I not be comfortable anywhere then? I don't know the answer to that one.


I think that part of the problem (which I already know) is that I'm too comfortable here. I can work on music, watch TV, and read books all at my leisure (I can't find a damn job, ok!). I had trouble doing all of these in my old life (I didn't watch televised TV though, nor did I really want to). I think the problem is that I feel comfortable enough now to do those things here, and I may not feel that comfortable wherever I move. Sure, there'll be some hectic moving in nonsense to deal with, but I want to be this comfortable wherever I move. I wasn't ever this comfortable before, and I don't want to give it up.

So I'm stuck: I can't let myself get comfortable again due to possibly having to be ripped out, but at the same time, I want to be as comfortable as I am now. I don't know what to do. 


I've also realized that I can't move back into the life I had before. I'm not a 22 year-old going back to Philly. I'm going to be 30 next month, and I've decided that it's now or never when it comes to growing up (I was not an adult at 22 and this little project may not work out). I've just decided that I'm too old to be moving back to a bar job (that I'm not even on the books at) that I've barely held on to for the last 2-plus years and for a band that I haven't played with much for 2-plus years.


If I end up moving back to Philly (which actually looks like the biggest possibility right now), I'll have to start everything over again. So I may move close to Drexel in West Philly if I decide to do that. If this happens, I'm of course, really excited to start playing again with Cloud Minder, I just don't think I can move back to Philly only because of an old band. I'm old enough to expect a little bit more from my life.